i've never found any such list, and it would be nice if someone were to make one. even just a list of languages/families (as you ask about in your first question) is something not easily come across. i personally have found wikipedia to be the most helpful (WALS doesn't come close to having all of the languages, and ethnologue i never use because i don't like how it organizes information), but even then wikipedia is only so good.
as for a list of grammars, that would be a daunting challenge to create such a thing. in my own studies i've put a lot of focus on north america, and fortunately there's a lot of information on those languages in terms of which ones were never documented. and of course for some languages (like navajo) the number of grammars is through the roof, and so a list of the grammars on it would practically be a book itself. -- the real problem is with the languages/families that are supposedly documented (or in some cases, supposedly still being spoken) but which it's impossible to find any information on. i come across lots of little side notes that say things like "according to such and such, whose works have never been published". i've done lots of unsuccessful searches on ILL, and i suspect that there are many books throughout libraries that you just can't access that way. it's frustrating when an author gives you a tiny taste of information, but their citation is no help in finding the rest of it. i don't know where they find this stuff.
the above is just about north america. i think if you tried finding information about south america or new guinea in this way, you'd find yourself screwed. when i've tried getting information on papuan languages, for example, i've taken what i can get (mostly in the form of works that tackle multiple languages at once). still,, some information is better than none. if you were to take on the task of trying to create such a list yourself, i think that would be a really valuable resource you'd be creating. the book "the languages of native north america" by marianne mithun has an extremely comprehensive bibliography. so,, that would be a good start., for that continent at least. i'm sure (most of) eurasia would be comparatively easy too (though you'd want to remember to include ancient languages).