You said it clearly: you are basing your answer on prescriptive approaches to English usage, which do not represent how the average English speaker actually speaks. According to a usage guide, sure. According to English speakers, not really.
This is a relevant page; I especially like Fowler's points, from about 90 years ago:
http://www.ceafinney.com/subjunctive/excerpts.htmlNote: the distinction between present and past subjunctive uses is an important one, and they behave differently, so speakers may use or the other and not necessarily both.
Also, phrases like "Were I to..." are
archaisms that are no longer productive, so that's why you would not encounter "Was I to...", not because English speakers really know such a rule. They just know an archaic idiom.